Mid North Coast Pioneers - Newcastle to Lismore and beyond

Mary HETHERINGTON

Name
Mary HETHERINGTON
Given names
Mary
Surname
HETHERINGTON
Married name
Mary GREY
Birthyes

MarriageJohn GREYView this family
yes

Birth of a son
#1
William GRAY
August 31, 1800
Note: There is doubt about his birth details. See his immigration record. The headstone for William is inscribed that he was 71 years of age at the time of his death in 1874.
Birth of a son
#2
George GREY
May 26, 1802
Text:

Cemetery: Kiama NSW Inscription Id: 7817689 Surname: Grey Given Names: George Birth Date: 26 May 1802 Death Date: 13 May 1887 Age: 85 Gender: M Portion: Ang Birth Town: Shanmullagh, Co Fermanagh Birth Country: Ireland Spouse Name: Isabella (Vance) Father's Name: John Mother's Name: Mary Mother's Maiden: Hetherington Other People: Anne Grey

Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Birth of a son
#3
Henry GREY
March 17, 1806
Text:

Birth Town and State Shanmullagh, Co Fermanagh

Birth of a son
#4
Hugh GREY
1808
Birth of a daughter
#5
Jane GREY
March 2, 1811
Publication: Newspaper published in Lismore NSW between 1876 and 1954
Citation details: Wednesday 16 September 1891, page 2
Crozier - Jane - Obituary
Crozier - Jane - Obituary

Note: Downloaded from Trove.

Birth of a daughter
#6
Mary Anne GRAY
March 13, 1814
Publication: https://familysearch.org
Citation details: Australia, New South Wales, Index to Bounty Immigrants, 1828-1842
Note: The immigration record for Mary includes the information that she was a native of Lurgan, Armagh, Ireland.
Marriage of a childWilliam GRAYMargaret RAMSAYView this family
1820

Birth of a grandson
#1
John GRAY
April 15, 1821
Text:

Gray John 15 Apr 1821 6 Sep 1892 71 son/William & Margaret (Ramsay); b. Drumoney, Co. Fermanagh, Ireland; h/Mary (Noble) Kangaroo Valley NSW Circle

Birth of a grandson
#2
Francis GRAY
calculated 1824
Citation details: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Gray - Francis - Arrived on board the "Wilson".
Gray - Francis - Arrived on board the "Wilson".

Note: Downloaded from ancestry.com.au

Birth of a grandson
#3
William GRAY
calculated 1830

Birth of a grandson
#4
William GREY
October 23, 1832
Citation details: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Text:

Birth Date 23 Oct 1832 Gender M Birth Town and State Brecklin Drumkeerin, Fermanagh Birth Country Ireland

Note: The shipping record for William includes the information that he was 8 years of age at the time he arrived in Australia in 1841.
Marriage of a childGeorge GREYIsabella VANCEView this family
1832
Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Birth of a grandson
#5
Robert GRAY
calculated 1833

Marriage of a childHenry GREYMaria WALMSLEYView this family
August 28, 1833

Birth of a granddaughter
#6
Mary Jane “Millie” GREY
February 18, 1834
Publication: Walmsley.GED
Publication: Northern Star (Lismore, NSW : 1876 - 1954), Monday 12 January 1914, page 4
Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Birth of a granddaughter
#7
Margaret GREY
calculated 1834

Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Marriage of a childThomas WILSONMary Anne GRAYView this family
May 27, 1834
Address: Templemaghery Church
Baptism of a granddaughterMary Jane “Millie” GREY
February 8, 1835
Religion: Church of Ireland
Publication: Walmsley.GED
Note: The Walmsley Family Gedcom has the year of birth as 1834.
Birth of a granddaughter
#8
Elizabeth WILSON
April 22, 1835

Publication: https://familysearch.org
Citation details: Australia, New South Wales, Index to Bounty Immigrants, 1828-1842
Birth of a granddaughter
#9
Jane GREY
calculated 1836

Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a grandson
#10
John WILSON
December 1836

Publication: https://familysearch.org
Citation details: Australia, New South Wales, Index to Bounty Immigrants, 1828-1842
Birth of a grandson
#11
John GREY
August 13, 1837
Citation details: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Note: The shipping record for John includes the information that he was four years of age at the time of his arrival in Australia in 1841.
Birth of a grandson
#12
Thomas WILSON
November 1, 1838

Publication: https://familysearch.org
Citation details: Australia, New South Wales, Index to Bounty Immigrants, 1828-1842
Marriage of a childJohn HETHERINGTONJane GREYView this family
July 8, 1839

Birth of a granddaughter
#13
Mary J HETHERINGTON
about 1840
Citation details: HETHERINGTON MARY J 1278/1840 V18401278 24A JOHN JANE
Birth of a granddaughter
#14
Isabella GREY
February 23, 1841
Citation details: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Text:

Cemetery: Kiama NSW Inscription Id: 7817696 Surname: Grey Given Names: Isabella Birth Surname: Grey Birth Date: 23 Feb 1841 Death Date: 3 Dec 1913 Age: 72 Gender: F Portion: Ang Birth Town: at sea Spouse Name: John James Father's Name: George Mother's Name: Isabella Mother's Maiden: Vance Other People: Celena Isabel Grey Remarks: dau/George & Isabella (Vance); b. at sea; w/John J; mother

Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Birth of a granddaughter
#15
Maria GREY
calculated April 1841

Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Marriage of a childHugh GREYElizabeth GRAHAMView this family
October 11, 1841

Birth of a granddaughter
#16
Mary Anne WILSON
calculated 1842
Citation details: WILSON MARY A 1346/1842 V18421346 26A THOMAS MARY
Birth of a grandson
#17
James GREY
about 1843
Citation details: 1272/1843 V18431272 27A GREY JAMES GEORGE ISABELLA
Birth of a grandson
#18
William Henry GRAY
about 1843
Citation details: GRAY WILLIAM H 1859/1843 V18431859 28 HENRY MARIA
Birth of a granddaughter
#19
Mary GREY
calculated 1843
Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a grandson
#20
William H HETHERINGTON
about 1843
Citation details: HETHERINGTON WILLIAM H 1258/1843 V18431258 27A JOHN JANE
Birth of a grandson
#21
Christopher HETHERINGTON
about 1844
Citation details: HETHERINGTON CHRISTOPHER 1862/1844 V18441862 28 JOHN JANE
Birth of a granddaughter
#22
Margaret WILSON
calculated 1844
Citation details: WILSON MARGARET 1804/1844 V18441804 28 THOMAS MARY
Birth of a grandson
#23
John GREY
calculated 1845
Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a granddaughter
#24
Anne GREY
1846
Text:

Cemetery: Kiama NSW Inscription Id: 7817690 Surname: Grey Given Names: Anne Birth Date: 1846 Death Date: 16 Dec 1945 Age: 99 Gender: F Portion: Ang Birth Town: Kiama, NSW Father's Name: George Mother's Name: Isabella Mother's Maiden: Vance Remarks: dau/George & Isabella (Vance); b. Kiama, NSW; aunt

Birth of a granddaughter
#25
Sophia Anne GRAY
about 1846
Citation details: GRAY SOPHIA A 3030/1846 V18463030 31A HENRY MARIA
Birth of a granddaughter
#26
Sophia A HETHERINGTON
about 1846
Citation details: HETHERINGTON SOPHIA A 910/1846 V1846910 31A JOHN JANE
Birth of a granddaughter
#27
Catherine WILSON
about 1846
Citation details: WILSON CATHERINE 3035/1846 V18463035 31A THOMAS MARY
Marriage of a grandchildFrancis GRAYJane IRVINEView this family
Type: Religious marriage
about 1847
Address: Jamberoo, Kiama, Shoalhaven
Religion: Church of England
Citation details: 586/1847 V1847586 32C GRAY FRANCIS IRVINE JANE NW
Birth of a granddaughter
#28
Elizabeth GREY
about 1848
Citation details: GRAY ELIZABETH 2385/1848 V18482385 33A HENRY MARIA
Birth of a grandson
#29
William Francis WILSON
about 1848
Citation details: WILSON WILLIAM F 2391/1848 V18482391 33A THOMAS MARY
Death of a grandsonJames GREY
about 1848
Citation details: GRAY JAMES 689/1848 V1848689 33B INFANT
Birth of a granddaughter
#30
Emily GRAY
about 1849
Citation details: GRAY EMILY 1286/1849 V18491286 34A HENRY MARIA
Birth of a granddaughter
#31
Rachel GREY
June 2, 1850
Citation details: 454/1850 V1850454 35 GREY RACHEL GEORGE ISABELLA
Quality of data: secondary evidence
Text:

Grey Rachel 2 Jun 1850 1942 91 dau/George & Isabella (Vance); b. Gerringong, NSW; w/William Kiama NSW Ang

Birth of a grandson
#32
Henry WILSON
about 1850
Citation details: WILSON HENRY 459/1850 V1850459 35 THOMAS MARY
Birth of a grandson
#33
John James GREY
about 1851
Citation details: GREY JOHN J 1916/1851 V18511916 37A HENRY MARIA
Birth of a granddaughter
#34
Susannah GREY
calculated 1851
Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a granddaughter
#35
Catherine Jane GREY
calculated 1852
Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a grandson
#36
George WILSON
about 1852
Citation details: WILSON GEORGE 1866/1852 V18521866 38A THOMAS MARY
Birth of a granddaughter
#37
Isabella R GRAY
about 1853
Citation details: GRAY ISABELLA R 4473/1853 V18534473 40 HENRY MARIA
Marriage of a grandchildRobert GRAYJane ELLIOTTView this family
about 1853
Citation details: 4513/1853 V18534513 74B GRAY ROBERT ELLIOTT JANE JC
Marriage of a childWilliam GRAYMargaret LAWView this family
October 22, 1853
Citation details: 4511/1853 V18534511 74B GRAY WILLIAM LAW MARGARET JC
Text:

There is also this reference:

341/1853 V1853341 81 GRAY WILLIAM LAW MARGARET JC

Quality of data: primary evidence
Marriage of a grandchildRobert ANDERSONElizabeth WILSONView this family
Type: Religious marriage
about 1854
Religion: Church of England
Citation details: 82/1854 V185482 41B ANDERSON ROBERT WILSON ELIZABETH NW
Birth of a grandson
#38
George Henry GREY
calculated 1855
Publication: New South Wales, Australia, Assisted Immigrant Passenger Lists, 1828-1896
Birth of a granddaughter
#39
Dora Jane WILSON
calculated 1855
Citation details: WILSON DORA J 4667/1855 V18554667 42B THOMAS MARY
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam WALMSLEY JPMary Jane “Millie” GREYView this family
Type: Religious marriage
August 16, 1855
Address: Church of England
Publication: Walmsley.GED
Citation details: V18551207 43B/1855 WAMSLEY WILLIAM GREY MARY J NW
Publication: Northern Star (Lismore, NSW : 1876 - 1954), Monday 12 January 1914, page 4
Publication: Northern Star (Lismore, NSW : 1876 - 1954), Monday 12 April 1920, page
Note: Stephen Painter, as does the Whaite Family web site, notes that they may have been married at Wisemans Ferry. This does not tie in with the marriage registration entry.
Marriage of a grandchildHenry LEEMargaret GREYView this family
about 1855
Citation details: 1203/1855 V18551203 43B LEE HENRY GRAY MARGARET NW
Birth of a grandson
#40
Hugh E GRAY
about 1856
Citation details: GRAY HUGH 5124/1856  HENRY MARIA KIAMA
Text:

There is also this reference:

GRAY HUGH E 861/1856 V1856861 155 HENRY MARIA

Birth of a granddaughter
#41
Fanny Maria WILSON
July 15, 1857
Address: Longbrush
Citation details: WILSON FANNY M 7503/1857  THOMAS MARY KIAMA
Birth of a granddaughter
#42
Lucinda GREY
about 1858
Citation details: GREY (FEMALE) 8022/1858  HENRY MARIA KIAMA
Text:

There is also this reference:

GRAY LUCINDA 899/1858 V1858899 155 HENRY MARIA

Marriage of a grandchildThomas ARMSTRONGJane GREYView this family
about 1858
Citation details: 1924/1858  ARMSTRONG THOMAS GRAY JANE KIAMA
Birth of a granddaughter
#43
Matilda “Tilly” GRAY
April 1, 1860
Publication: Walmsley.GED
Citation details: GRAY MATILDA 924/1860 V1860924 155 HENRY MARIA
Citation details: 17 August 2017
Text:

In part:

"I have personally seen the church record for her baptism on 7.7.1860 that showed a date of birth of 1.4.1860."

Note: The birth registration is, presumably, of her baptism church record and there is no reference to a particular date.
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam GREYMary Jane WALMSLEYView this family
about 1860
Citation details: 1613/1860  GREY WILLIAM WAMSLEY MARY JANE GOSFORD
Marriage of a childHenry CROZIERJane GREYView this family
about 1860
Citation details: 2864/1860  CROZIER HENRY HETHERINGTON JANE WOLLONGONG
Baptism of a granddaughterMatilda “Tilly” GRAY
July 7, 1860

Citation details: 17 August 2017
Text:

In part:

"I have personally seen the church record for her baptism on 7.7.1860 that showed a date of birth of 1.4.1860."

Marriage of a grandchildJames NETHERYMary Anne WILSONView this family
about 1861
Citation details: 1949/1861  NETHERY JAMES WILSON MARY ANN KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam TURNERMargaret WILSONView this family
about 1861
Citation details: 1977/1861  TURNER WILLIAM WILSON MARGARET KIAMA
Birth of a granddaughter
#44
Eliza M GRAY
about 1862
Citation details: GRAY ELIZA M 8524/1862  HUGH ELIZABETH KIAMA
Death of a sonHugh GREY
July 29, 1862
Citation details: GRAY HUGH 3874/1862  JOHN G MARY KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Marriage of a grandchildJohn WALMSLEYCatherine WILSONView this family
about 1863
Citation details: 1516/1863  WARNSLEY JOHN WILSON CATHERINE BERRIMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam SHARPMary GREYView this family
about 1865
Citation details: 2285/1865  SHARP WILLIAM GRAY MARY KIAMA
Death of a daughterMary Anne GRAY
February 12, 1865
Address: At the residence of Mr. Robert Anderson.
Informant: George GREYelder brother
Cause: Consumption
Citation details: 4043/1865 WILSON MARY JOHN MARY KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Publication: Newspaper; Kiama NSW; 1863 - 1947
Citation details: Thursday 16 February 1865, page 2
Wilson - Mary - Death notice
Wilson - Mary - Death notice

Note: Downloaded from Trove.

Burial of a daughterMary Anne GRAY
February 13, 1865
Marriage of a grandchildJohn GRAYMaria GREYView this family
about 1866
Citation details: 2185/1866  GRAY JOHN GRAY MARIA KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam Henry GRAYAgnes L CRAIGView this family
about 1866
Citation details: 2173/1866  GRAY WILLIAM H CRAIG AGNES L KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam JOHNSTONSophia Anne GRAYView this family
about 1866
Citation details: 2175/1866  JOHNSTON WILLIAM GRAY SOPHIA A KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildJohn GREYIsabella Jane MOFFITTView this family
about 1867
Citation details: 2237/1867  GRAY JOHN MOFFITT ISABELLA JANE KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildJohn James GRAYIsabella GREYView this family
Type: Religious marriage
June 10, 1868
Religion: Church of England
Citation details: 2435/1868  GRAY JOHN GRAY ISABELLA KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam GREYMargaret Ann RITCHIEView this family
about 1871
Citation details: 1350/1871  GRAY WILLIAM RITCHIE MARGARET A PADDINGTON
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam Henry MORROWElizabeth GREYView this family
about 1874
Citation details: 2734/1874  MORROW WILLIAM HENRY GRAY ELIZABETH KIAMA
Death of a sonWilliam GRAY
June 14, 1874
Citation details: GRAY WILLIAM 5403/1874  JOHN MARY KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam GREYEmily Agnes E BAXTERView this family
about 1876
Citation details: 3073/1876 GREY WILLIAM BAXTER EMILY AGNES E KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam James ALCORNCatherine Jane GREYView this family
about 1878
Citation details: 4736/1878  ALDOORN WILLIAM JAMES GRAY CATHERINE J SHOALHAVEN
Marriage of a grandchildJohn WALKERIsabella R GRAYView this family
about 1879
Citation details: 3513/1879  WALKER JOHN GRAY ISABELLA R KIAMA
Marriage of a grandchildWilliam GREYRachel GREYView this family
about 1880
Citation details: 289/1880 GREY WILLIAM GREY RACHEL SYDNEY
Death of a grandsonRobert GRAY
November 12, 1884
Citation details: GRAY ROBERT 2815/1884  WILLIAM DIED BALMAIN BALMAIN
Quality of data: primary evidence
Marriage of a grandchildEdward George WALMSLEYMatilda “Tilly” GRAYView this family
July 1, 1885
Publication: Walmsley.GED
Citation details: 5602/1885 WALMSLEY EDWARD G GRAY MATILDA KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Death of a granddaughterElizabeth WILSON
about 1887
Citation details: ANDERSON ELIZABETH 6979/1887  THOMAS MARY G BERRIMA
Death of a sonGeorge GREY
May 13, 1887
Text:

Cemetery: Kiama NSW Inscription Id: 7817689 Surname: Grey Given Names: George Birth Date: 26 May 1802 Death Date: 13 May 1887 Age: 85 Gender: M Portion: Ang Birth Town: Shanmullagh, Co Fermanagh Birth Country: Ireland Spouse Name: Isabella (Vance) Father's Name: John Mother's Name: Mary Mother's Maiden: Hetherington Other People: Anne Grey

Citation details: 9854/1887 GREY GEORGE JOHN MARY KIAMA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Grey - George and Anne
Grey - George and Anne

Note: Image kindly made available by the volunteers at Australian Cemeteries Index.

Publication: http://www.illawarrawomen.com/index.html
Marriage of a grandchildHenry Frederick NOBLEDora Jane WILSONView this family
about 1888
Citation details: 211/1888  NOBLE HENRY F WILSON DORA J SYDNEY
Marriage of a grandchildRobert GAYLucinda GREYView this family
about 1889
Citation details: 5350/1889  GAY ROBERT GRAY LUCINDA KIAMA
Death of a granddaughterCatherine WILSON
about 1890
Citation details: WALMSLEY CATHERINE 5388/1890  THOMAS UNKNOWN GLEN INNES
Death of a daughterJane GREY
September 15, 1891
Address: At the residence of her son, Christopher Hetherington.
Citation details: CROZIER Jane 8263/1891  John UNKNOWN The Richmond
Quality of data: primary evidence
Publication: Newspaper published in Lismore NSW between 1876 and 1954
Citation details: Wednesday 16 September 1891, page 2
Crozier - Jane - Obituary
Crozier - Jane - Obituary

Note: Downloaded from Trove.

Burial of a daughterJane GREY
September 16, 1891
Cemetery: Bexhill General
Publication: Newspaper published in Lismore NSW between 1876 and 1954
Citation details: Wednesday 16 September 1891, page 2
Crozier - Jane - Obituary
Crozier - Jane - Obituary

Note: Downloaded from Trove.

Death of a grandsonJohn GRAY
September 6, 1892
Text:

Gray John 15 Apr 1821 6 Sep 1892 71 son/William & Margaret (Ramsay); b. Drumoney, Co. Fermanagh, Ireland; h/Mary (Noble) Kangaroo Valley NSW Circle

Citation details: GRAY JOHN 9989/1892  WILLIAM MARGARET NOWRA
Quality of data: primary evidence
Death of a sonHenry GREY
February 26, 1894
Citation details: GRAY HENRY 6851/1894 JOHN MARY KIAMA
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